BROTHER, I'M DYING
By EDWIDGE DANTICAT

Alfred A. Knopf, 2007
ISBN: 1400041155
288 pages; Hardcover
GENRE(S): Nonfiction, Memoir

Reviewed by Samantha Storey

Edwidge Danticat has often drawn upon her experiences growing up in Haiti as a backdrop to communicate the political struggles of the region and the continued tension on its people. With Brother, I'm Dying, Danticat delves into the reality that has inspired much of her past fiction, and the undeniable actualities that changed her life in a place that should have been a safe haven.

Brother, I'm Dying centers around two important men in Danticat's life—her father Mira and his brother Joseph. When her parents immigrate to the United States in the early 1970s, Edwidge and her younger brother Bob, are left in the care of Joseph and his wife Denise, an enigmatic and outspoken pair attempting to live in the struggling capital of Port-au-Prince. The memoir is as raw as it is bittersweet, gently moving back and forth between Edwidge's childhood in Haiti and the time in which she writes the book (2004), as the violence in Haiti builds and forces Joseph to seek asylum in the U.S.
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While much of the memoir focuses on events in the lives of the two brothers, it is also the story of Danticat's existence within those events, including her own pregnancy—a discovery made the same day her father is diagnosed with terminal pulmonary fibrosis. Through her flashbacks, Danticat recounts her adolescence in Port-au-Prince and close relationship with Joseph. After a radical laryngectomy renders him mute and later forces him to speak through an artificial voice box, Danticat is overwhelmed by the response of the community to his ailment. She writes, "[A]ll I could think to do was imagine a wall around him, a roaming fortress that would follow him everywhere he went and shield him from derision." As with her previous novels, Danticat is an expert at restraint, careful not to reveal too much too soon or pile too much sadness onto one bite. But as much as Brother tries to be a tender reflection, it is no doubt sad.

Rejoined with their parents in Brooklyn almost eight years later, Danticat and her brother must reintegrate not just with their parents, but also with two new younger siblings. This is usually the part where memoirs go stale with the minutiae of daily life, but Danticat doesn't labor on this and uses the transitions as a way to move forward without leaving the reader behind.

As tension rises in modern-day Port-au-Prince, Joseph, having lost much of his family to age or violence, finds himself the target of rebel gangs after being accused of allowing the militia to use his Church's roof to better aim at helpless civilians. Though plainly innocent, he moves his family to another town and makes plans to join his Brooklyn family on a tourist visa. As he attempts to leave the city, his church is burned to the ground and even parishioners who had known him for 40 years loot his possessions. As the scene unfolds, it is as if Danticat were actually there, watching, as Joseph had watched, his favorite suit walk away on the back of someone else or his shoes on the feet of the militiamen.

In Brooklyn, Danticat is reticent to reveal her pregnancy to her family in the wake of her father's diagnosis. In direct parallel to the ongoing struggle of her Uncle is the ongoing struggle of her father and his likely upcoming death. What makes Brother so endearing is the simple way Danticat describes the two men, her two fathers, throughout the book. Both are portrayed as uniquely strong men, loyal—almost to a fault—to their families, humble, giving and proud, their estimation in Danticat's and readers' eyes never falters.

Though this is a memoir about family, it is not without a decidedly political slant. The turmoil in Haiti in the twenty-first century is, arguably, a direct result of the U.S. occupation of the region over 70 years ago. Though UN peacekeepers continued to inhabit Haiti, the region struggled to build a government of their own, never able to create a stable economy or democratic leadership and resulting in tyranny and unrelenting fear. Joseph's arrival in the US is not without complication, however, and it leads to the second political tangent Danticat edges in. Though in possession of a valid tourist visa, Joseph asks for asylum, anticipating a prolonged visit due to the threats on his life in Port-au-Prince. Relying mostly on government documents, Danticat swiftly details the horrifying next 48 hours, during which the 81-year-old Joseph is taken to the Krome Detention Center in Miami, Florida, and the events that transpire within them.

What Danticat accomplishes here goes beyond a particularly tragic piece of her life story. Brother, I'm Dying is a story of those who leave and those who stay, of good people in bad situations and the human condition that allows us to move forward despite the misery.

(April, 2008)

 

 
     

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